Green-light signs
- They text “for no reason” or reply fast at odd hours.
- They bring up inside jokes or favorite memories.
- They ask about your dating life (subtly).
- They mirror your posting or stories.
- They suggest practical reasons to meet (advice, errands).
- They keep souvenirs/photos visible.
- Friends/family hint they still ask about you.
- They show jealousy when you go on dates.
- They check your socials quickly after you post.
- They apologize for their part in the breakup.
Yellow-light signs (interest but uncertainty)
- Hot-and-cold texting streaks.
- They vent about their rebound.
- They say they “miss the old us” but avoid plans.
Reality check: Attraction usually faded due to behavior (jealousy, neediness, low boundaries). Fixing those habits is critical before reconnecting — otherwise you repeat the breakup. :contentReference[oaicite:1]{index=1}
What to do next
- Pause & reset: If things are tense, use a short no-contact window to reach Emotional Zero.
- Send a purpose-based opener: A single, non-heavy text they can easily answer (“What was that bakery near 3rd Ave called?”).
- Keep it light: Trade a few short messages, then be the one to end the chat.
- Build to a short meet: Suggest a quick, practical coffee catch-up.
- Re-spark attraction: Confident vibe, good eye contact, gentle touch if welcomed; avoid relationship talk on first meet.